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From the Shore You Cannot See's avatar

I love the idea of curiosity becoming a project..

It feels like permission to grow without needing to prove anything first..

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

There's nothing to be proved to anyone. This is where most of us get stuck!

Grace Raper's avatar

I love David Epstein! Looking forward to the new book he has coming out this year.

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Yes, he is great! I didn't know there is a new book coming out. I'll make sure to check it out! Thanks Grace!!

What Fed Me's avatar

I love this. Enjoying the process rather than the outcome is so refreshing and think it relieves a lot of pressure we put on ourselves to "succeed" in everything.

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

100%. As a recovered perfectionist, I can tell pressure is the recipe for never get anything done :) So, I don't recommend it. hehe

Seona Joung's avatar

Curiosity is my experiement too and also wrote a piece about it!

I was inspired by this book 'Tiny experiement' by Anne Laure Le-Canff where I first learned about the experiement approach. It already changed me from just thinking to doing -- hoping to continue experiementing this year. Cheers 🌟

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Hii Seona! Yes, I love the book tiny experiments. It is a great read!! Switching the key in our minds from endless planning and “feeling ready” to actually just doing stuff is life changing!!

danie's avatar

Saving this, and really appreciate you sharing this!! Will be checking out that podcast episode as well, happy new year here’s to experimenting and exploring!

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Happy new year!! That podcast episode is sooo worth it :)

broccoli’s drafts's avatar

I love this, thank you for sharing !!

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Thank you for letting me know ✨

Isabella | Projeto: Corpo-Lar's avatar

Love to see things in this perspective <3

Natalia Cantarino's avatar

That REALLY resonated with me .. lovely, thanks for sharing!

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

I’m so glad!! Thank you for letting me know Natalia 🥰 Merry christmas!

Kian Razi's avatar

Wow. This really landed for me. Especially the distinction between achievement goals and learning goals as a way of staying in relationship with the process rather than outsourcing meaning to outcomes.

What you describe mirrors something I’ve been circling lately: the quiet exhaustion that comes from measuring ourselves against imagined futures instead of tracking what’s actually changing inside us. Numbers, milestones, resolutions. They’re clean, but they flatten the lived texture of becoming. (Sorry for the length of my response.)

I also appreciate how honest you are about the messiness, the projects that didn’t “work,” the rebranding, the experiments that led somewhere unexpected. That feels truer to how lives actually unfold, with less revelation and more composting.

I’m doing something similar right now, using writing not to prove anything, but to see what emerges when I stay curious and consistent without guarantees. This reframing feels like permission to keep going without needing to arrive.

Thanks for articulating this so clearly. It’s grounding to read something that values learning over performance, and process over posing.

Soleia Lior's avatar

Thank you so much!!

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

I'm glad you found it helpful!

Sinéad Connolly✨'s avatar

Love this, I’m so excited to listen to that David Epstein podcast, have it queued up for the weekend 😍

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Let me know what you think! I’m curious to hear your perspective :)