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Monica's avatar

This has been so valuable to read, Nats. And that was sound advise from your Mom. There is a friend I have anxiety around - when I receive her text or when I know we are meeting up. I don’t know how to walk away from the friendship or at least, distance myself from her, because I don’t want to hurt her. But I know she is not good for my mental health.

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

I understand your situation. Often we have to make the choice: hurt others or hurt ourselves. Sometimes, ti can be that we stay close to hurtful relationships because we're scared of finding ourselves alone. But what I realized is that when we create space, life sends us the right people to us. I hope you can find the strength to protect yourself :)

Monica's avatar

Thank you, Nats. I’ve just given my drawers, cupboards and bedroom a revamp - and it’s mentally letting go, too; and making space for the new energy and friendships to come in. ✨✨✨

Nathalia Montenegro's avatar

Love this for you :)